heres a response to an article i read about "nice guys"
Being that I’ve been told several times that I’m the “nice guy”
I figured I’d give my two cents
“Nice guys” finish last in many cases
However, in many cases they don’t
Sure, I take care of my girl and treat her like a princess
But, I’m far from a pushover and hardly a door mat
Many people that felt that way about me
Learned the hard-ly easy way that in fact, I’m not so nice
I’m like a lot of “nice guys”
I fall somewhere in the middle
Somewhere between, the “dick head” guys that girls are drawn to
And the uber nice and sweet guy that girls are scared off buy
But I do have a question?
In what world is being “nice” a terrible character flaw
I happen to value my girlfriend and the time I spend with her
Because, why wouldn’t I want to spend time with my girlfriend
But, in reality who do these girls end up marrying anyway?
The “nice guy” from what I’ve seen
This is by no means an attack on guys that girls consider “dick heads”
This also isn’t a commentary on how guys should act
I treat my daughter, my mother, and girlfriend as they should be treated
I have another question?
Do these same people that fault the “nice guy” want their daughters or sisters or mothers
Going out with the “dick head” guys
No! exactly!
So I pose this to you, maybe being the “nice guy” makes you finish last
But atleast you finish feeling better about how you treat other people
You finish feeling better about yourself
You know that you don’t send the women in your life home crying
But maybe that’s the “nice guy” in me
Walking around picking up the pieces of the other guys
That these women just broke up with
Making these women feel valued again
Treated like a queen and giving them the attention
They know they want
But pretend that they don’t like
"An Akili Carter original"
